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“Mona” has some deep thinking to do this month. She will be reviewing the post to get your thoughts.
On a regular basis we all get in the car and the first thing the kids want is some entertainment. I hate that I fostered that, but it is what it is. Anyway, each girl asked for our phones. I hand over the phone, I know the deal, but Mike doesn’t He gives some lame excuse, but I pay it no mind, but it DID get my attention. And then on the way back home, the same thing happened again. So now I like “hmmmm.” Then we get home and we are both ‘usually’ in a rush to plug our phones in. But today, there was no rush, he kept that thing glued to his hand. S now I’m like “double hmmmmmm.” Me being a smart ass, with my phone dead and the computers out of reach says “Mike, can I see your phone real fast?” Mike replies, “My phone is dying, you want me to get a computer for you?” I say, “sure, thanks!” While he is in the other room getting the laptop, I reach over and pick up the phone he left on the arm of the couch and see the phone is LOCKED. Now I’m like, “Oh you trying to be sneaky, you MUST think I’m dumb”
Mona: Let me say this, Mike has been in contact with a couple of his old girlfriends through Facebook. I thought we addressed that, but now I am wondering WTF!
the Mommies: Mona, let me say this, trust your instincts. If you think something is wrong you owe it to yourself to mind out what is going on. It could be nothing, but what is wrong with just finding out?
Mona: Ladies, I don’t know what I’m feeling. I trust Mike, I do. But why was he so guarded about his phone. I mean we both purposely have games on our phones that the girls love to play. I am ONLY suspicious because he was acting different.
the Mommies: I think there is more to this story Mona. Why that day? What else was going on? Why is this such a big deal?
Mona: Well, we have argued this past week. He claims that every time we have any alone time I’m on the computer, on the phone or watching one of the Housewives’ shows. But mostly, when I’m online I’m talking to one of you. It isn’t like I am doing something big, I am just chit chatting with the girls. But I am definitely not hiding anything or locking my computer.
the Mommies: Men are juvenile. He could just be doing his version of what you are doing to get back at you. OR he may have some dirty chick that his taken advantage of the situation. Whatever it is, you need to find out as soon as possible.